Christmas Holidays 2

Hopefully you have made it through the wonderfulness of family and Christmas as well as the competing sentiments that the season brings. We are now in our last week of 2010 and looking towards the year 2011. Take some time to imagine what you might want in your relationships for this year and how you will change in order to bring that about. Write your endpoint down and start at the first opportunity. Don’t get stuck in waiting for the other person to change. Or don’t remain in the “fixing to get ready” stage of change! Don’t be there at this time next year. Writing your ‘why would I want to make this relationship different’ down on paper as well as your ‘how’ are more powerful in reaching for change. Start now. Go forth and be wonderful!

Posted by Lynda in Healthier Marriages